Connect Your Dots
You just need to read yourself better.
Authenticity-focused coaching for people tired of performing a version of themselves that isn't quite them. Online, Norwich, and beyond.
Three honest doors. Pick the one that's true today — you can always come back through another.
One email a day, five days. Each one gives you a single task — five to fifteen minutes, pen and paper. By day five you'll have three dots on a page and a line through them.
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Two questions. Each answer places a dot. By the end you'll see the shape of support that fits — and when you book, I'll already understand where you're starting from.
Your dots, connected.
One service level. Presence £49 / 15 minutes; Support £99 / 30 minutes; Rhythm £199 / 60 minutes; Flow £399 / 180 minutes; Depth £699 / 360 minutes per monthly billing period. VIP is bespoke. Replies to brief between-session questions within two business days. Full terms agreed before payment.
Then I won't make you sit through a discovery call to prove it. A Breakthrough is three hours of the deepest single session I do — SAHARA for the structure, KIMBA where the body's holding it. You book, you pay, we work.
Not quite certain? The middle door is right there — a conversation costs nothing.
"I deliver brilliantly. And I go home hollowed out."
"I speak up for everyone else. I silence myself."
"I've built a life that looks right. It doesn't feel like mine."
"I know what's wrong. I just can't seem to move it."
You're not broken. You're high-functioning — and you've made it work, at some cost. Therapy feels like too much. Self-help books aren't enough. You don't need fixing. You need someone to help you connect the dots you've been ignoring.
Connect Your Dots is structured around two frameworks I built over years of working with people at the edge of who they think they are and who they actually are.
This isn't therapy. I'm clear on that boundary. It's structured coaching with a referral pathway for anything that needs clinical support.
Where we work:
Voices from earlier coaching work with David, before today’s CYD offers.
“I had absolutely no idea that a video call with somebody I had never met before could be so powerful.”
Mike Davison · Facebook recommendation
“I had a great experience talking with David!”
Shane Brooke · Facebook recommendation
I built these frameworks because I needed them. Not as a thought experiment — as a way through something I couldn't name for a long time. SAHARA came from figuring out what authenticity actually means when everything around you is watching. KIMBA came from what the body holds that the mind keeps trying to explain away.
I've worked one-to-one since 2017, under different names and formats. The Caldicott Method. Gorilla Zen. The Game of Authenticity. The container changed. The work didn't.
Based in Norwich, UK. Working online and in person. Available for the right engagement wherever that is.
This works best when you're:
Between sessions, you can send brief questions about our ongoing work. I reply within two business days; substantial discussion belongs in a session. This is ongoing support with clear boundaries, not immediate or emergency access.
Sessions are with David. Brief between-session questions receive a reply within two business days. Any AI assistance with notes or administration follows the privacy and consent terms we agree; there is no separate access tier.
If you're in acute mental health crisis, I'll help you find the right support — but this isn't the right container for that. If you're in the quieter struggle, it probably is.
However far you've read, one of these is true.